- Do NOT flirt with his friends! No matter how adorable they are to you, you need to assure him that he is the only guy for you.
- Don't be annoying.
- Never lie.
- Don't look at his phone.
- Don't conduct "secret tests" on your boyfriend to see what he'll do. It's humiliating, disrespectful and unfair, and you wouldn't want him to do that to you. The same goes for coercing your boyfriend with sex.
- It's fine to share things with your girlfriends when talking about him, but remember to be respectful of him by not sharing things that are embarrassing, confidential or rude. (Don't kiss and tell!) You can keep your girlfriends "updated" on how the relationship is going, but keep them from getting involved in your relationship, unless abuse or other dangerous activities are taking place, in which case tell them everything. But if you decide you want to share private information about the relationship, make sure he is allowed to do the same with his friends; but don't let him talk about you like an object.
- Jealousy is a very dangerous thing. Don't intentionally make him jealous. That will result with a lot of problems and difficulties within your relationship.
- Try to get along with his friends and family. These are most likely things that mean a lot to him, and him having good opinions about you from people he cares about will mean a lot. Try making friends with his friends and his siblings. Make sure you're respectful to his parents and make sure they like you. Try doing little things like becoming close with his mom or going shopping with his sister.
- Boys feel insecure and like compliments too!
- Don't just be honest, but be open with things as well. Don't leave things unsaid, even if it can beawkward, because this can lead to problems in your relationship down the road.
- Don't go out with a guy who you never talk to in person and only talk to on the phone or instant message. Then the guy will think you are scared to talk to him in person or you just don't care about the relationship.
- Don't be too sexual with your boyfriend. If you're always doing something sexual, he'll think that's all you're good for and he won't treat you with the respect that he should. Remember to keep it slow.
Sunday, January 30, 2011
WARNINGS
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